I usually post about my travels and adventures. I’m on the road so often that I never lack content ideas, but it’s rare that I show our daily life at home in Southern California. This weekend was typical for us. We went to a birthday party, attended the ballet, and hit up the beach as a Sunday favorite. It wasn’t extreme and I didn’t cross anything off my yearly list but it was beautiful. We try to make our daily life just as fantastic as our vacations, which isn’t too difficult when you live in Southern California.
Our weekend officially began with a birthday party for Athena’s good friend, Declan. We spend a lot of time with the entire family and you might have read about our trip together to Loews in San Diego last week. Declan turned three years old and his mother planned a superhero party with Batman, capes and masks, and fun games. Even though Athena was a superhero, she couldn’t leave her princess side behind. She was a superhero princess – just one of the things I love about her so much. It was 100% reflective of her personality. She wasn’t too keen on seeing Batman walk in the door and spent most of the time sitting on my lap while the other kids played games with him. That’s not to say she didn’t have fun. She still managed to win a few prizes and eat delicious, blue cake. Surrounded by friends and laughter, we had a wonderful afternoon.
The fun didn’t stop there for Athena or us. Athena’s babysitter came over to take care of Athena and Darren and I were off to the ballet. Festival Ballet Theatre offers some of the best productions I’ve ever seen in my life so any time they have a performance coming up, I’m usually the first person to get tickets.
Luckily I was in town this week because Festival Ballet Theatre presented the opening of Swan Lake. I had never seen it before but it will now be a yearly tradition. Yuan Yuan Tan was mesmerizing. I’m convinced she is actually a swan. She made it look easy. She spent so much time on her toes that it looked like that’s the way we were made to move. I wanted her to stay on the stage for the entire production. I can only image that every women in the theater longed to move like her. As stunning as she was, it was the Jester, Lex Ishimoto, that impressed me the most. He officially gains the title of my favorite dancer of all time. How does someone get so good? How does such a young man move with such distinction? I want to learn more. Is he one of the dancers from Festival Ballet Theatre? Is he in any upcoming productions? I honestly enjoyed his performance so much that I’d plan to stay in town to see him again. I’m going to do my research. It’s worth finding out.
I was still dreaming about the ballet when I woke up this morning. As we drove to Dana Point, I imagined walking on my toes and moving like Yuan Yuan Tan. My greatest wish for Athena is that she finds something that she’s equally passionate about. Traveling and writing give me that kind of joy. It would be a dream come true for Athena to find a rewarding career when she gets older. We spend too much of our time working not to find something we love. Hopefully I will always encourage her to follow her passion regardless of what it is.
Her passion today was building sandcastles. We spent the entire day at Dana Point Marina. Free parking, gentle waves, and a family-friendly atmosphere make it our favorite spot to relax. We’re thinking about buying a paddle board and a kayak to take to Dana Point. Seeing other kids on boards and in kayaks is encouraging. Spending quality time with Athena near or on the water is why we moved back to California. We want to make the most of it every day.
A typical weekend here in Orange County would have been my idea of a dream vacation a few years ago. I’m grateful for everything that we’ve accomplished in life and I look forward to what’s to come. We are dreamers.
This brought back some fond memories from my girlhood. I was born in San Diego and lived there until I moved to Hawai’i at age 17. I spent so much time with my family and friends at LaJolla…roasting corn on the cob over an open fire, building sand castles, surfing when a little older. It was a wonderful place to grow up.
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We went to San Diego last week and had a wonderful time with friends. We love San Diego as much as Orange County. We’re planning a trip back in May for a camping weekend. It will be similar to your memories of roasting corn on the cob over an open fire, building sand castles, and surfing. When do you live now? Are you still in Hawaii? You certainly grew up in amazing places.
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Sounds like a great weekend and relaxing. Glad you had time to treasure the small things. Sounds like you made the right decision to move back to CA. We are moving to Oshkosh, WI in a few weeks. Lots of water and so looking forward to it.
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What brings you to Oshkosh? Are you excited about the move? Do you still have lots of planning ahead of you or are you on the other side of all of that?
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Actually we chose Oshkosh because we love the area and all the water and fishing since it’s something that we both enjoy. Will learn a lot more about the area when we move. Renting a house outside of town. Planning is done but still packing away! Kathy
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So exciting! Isn’t it wonderful to move to a place that offers everything that you enjoy? I can’t wait to see photos. Don’t forget to share.
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Yes, it is Lesley and we are definitely looking forward to the move. Plan on taking lots of pictures and doing a few blog posts. Moving mid- April. Thanks again 🙂
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Forgot to say, Yes very excited!
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a beautiful day, thank you for sharing it.
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Sounds like a lovey family weekend. The kind at which nothing really ‘happens’ but one that you remember for a long time. 🙂
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I’m always excited to go to the ballet and I could stay at the beach forever. I may not be able to afford to live on the beach here in California but we’re close even to drive there every day.
How was your weekend?
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My weekend was hectic! I had an important work event so that drained all my energy. But I took Monday off to recuperate, so that’s okay 😉 Take care!
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Awesome post! The beach there looks gorgeous!! Athena is a beautiful young lady!! It’s cool you do things in your own neck of the woods too!! Have a wonderful week!! Hugz Lisa and Bear
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It’s not our favorite beach for beauty, but every beach here is stunning anyway. It is the one place, though, that I can totally relax with Athena at the water’s edge.
How was your weekend? Did you get to enjoy the outdoors?
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Lesley something in this post captured my attention. As much as I love to travel, I love home. This weekend at home is as enchanting for me as your travel in part in the way you describe it but in part because it’s the every day, here we are living our lives kind of post.
I love that you asked, “How does someone get to be so good?” and my immediate thought is, “Lesley, you already know the answer to that question because you’re already doing it.” And setting a darned fine example of how to be that good.
Teri
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A thousand thank yous, Teri. I think I’m a little emotional today and you’ve made me cry. I’m not embarrassed though. The kindness of others is a good reason to cry at 8 am. 😉
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Sigh. Sounds like a wonderful family weekend. Now I can’t w.a.i.t. for warmer weather to arrive. ❤
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It’s just around the corner now. How was your weekend? I’m sure you made the best of the weather. 🙂
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The sun was out, but the wind was still chilly. Tonight we’re forecast -9C. Brr. I had a week’s break and almost feel rejuvenated. 🙂
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Sounds perfect! I hope to make it to SoCal at some point. Your mention of the ballet just reminded me that’s seeing a performance is on my list. Need to get it done in the next few months.
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Have you ever seen a ballet? It’s a mesmerizing experience. Which performance do you have in mind?
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Thanks for responding! I once went to Fall for Dance at the New York City Center — there were several styles of dance being performed, including ballet. But I’ve never been to a purely classical ballet performance. I have always wanted to see The Nutcracker, but honestly I’ll see anything at the NYC Ballet!
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Thank you Lesley for such a beautiful description of the ballet and your wonderful pictures of Athena. She is such a delight to watch growing up.
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Already worrying about Athena’s future… 🙂 –Curt
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Worrying, Curt?
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Mmmmm… more like dreaming and hoping for the best. In other words, your a mom. A good thing.
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It’s great to find beauty and joy in the place where we live. Sometimes it seems “the grass is greener” somewhere else. When I first started writing, I wanted my setting to be something exciting and exotic, which for me meant far away! It took me a while to realize that where I live might be exotic and wonderful to someone else! All of my books are now set in the north of Canada – the place I also call home.
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Btw, I love all your wonderful pics! Thank you for sharing them with us.
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Dear Dreamer, I loved the way you said that Travelling and writing gives you the kind of joy one wishes to have from working for something you are passionate about! I hope everyone finds a passionate career. Your Athena is one lucky girl 🙂
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Glad to hear that you are happy about your decision to move back to SoCal…. I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else! And Athena is lucky to have a mother who wants her to live her own dream instead of telling her how to live her life… good for you.
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Isn’t wonderful to have such a great place to come back to? I mean, I love travel more than anything but sometimes a little weekend around home takes the cake.
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Dear Lesley,
Your posts are always so well-written, articulate, and infused with emotion and honesty. I love how you’ve exceeded other travel bloggers by letting your other interests in life (not just travel) shine through your writing. Your blog is not only a resource for travelers, but also for parenting, being honest and open, and listening to one’s heart and being true to oneself. Being a teacher myself, I always read your posts keeping in mind that you used to be a teacher! Your posts are so well-rounded and human, and they are not one-offs. You place everything within a context. This is why I return over and over to your blog and why your blog is one of the very few I get automatically to my Inbox.
Marisa
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PS I also live in California- San Francisco. Every weekend feels like an exciting vacation! #gratitude
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A lovely weekend indeed. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I appreciate it.
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Awesome and yes it is nice to appreciate the little things which really are the big things in life!
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Really beautiful!
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Beautiful! I love the sun photo. 🙂
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We are considering moving far from home too. Posts like this make me feel like that may be a good choice. Thanks for this!
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I can’t believe how big your little one has become!
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Looks fantastic, Lesley. My daughter does ballet and jazz and the family who owns the dance school are all professionals. Their son has just been accepted into the Sydney Ballet Company and I feel so privileged to have seen him dance up close…a metre away. From what I understand of them, they live and breathe dance and it is a 100% focus, passion and obsession.
My daughter just showed me a clip talking about how much video gamers, or at least the people that create them and the videos etc make. Wow! That’s serious money and my kids are certainly obsessed but I don’t want them growing up with screen eyes, either. I want them to appreciate the outdoors.
I highly recommend the kayaking. I get out there regularly and do it, despite my mobility issues. My kids are in the sea scouts and get out a bit, However, my daughter does get a bit fearful of all the critters in the water: sharks, stingrays,oysters. The funny thing is she’s quite confident at Sea Scouts when we’re not around but when I’m around she won’t go out unless she’s under duress. Kids!
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